A common misconception about clubs is that it is a place where sexually active women are easily obtained. This is a fallacy. They can however be viewed as “”Training Camps”" where you can practice ways of engaging and picking up attractive women. Of course, there are various other places, such as parks, beaches, and stores, where encounters with girls are easier to be had. You will no doubt find that many women are more at ease, and easier to approach in such places. Looking at clubs as “”Training Camps”" assumes that the going is much harder than in these less obvious venues.
When a girl goes to a club, she prepares herself emotionally and mentally ahead of time before she walks in the door. She knows that there will be many men there who may approach her, and she knows what she will do to discourage any she does not want to engage. She may not want to deal with any encounters, and just have a drink with her girlfriends, so she may, in fact, be very unapproachable. For this reason, it is probably NOT a good idea to expect that you are going to convince a woman in the club to repair to your bungalow. Instead, you would do better to use the time and the venue to practice breaking the ice with a variety of women, and learning what behaviors lead to a woman feeling at ease with you.
Man, the club is, like, totally disorienting with all the cigarette smoke, the low lighting, and the phat sound system blaring away. Trying to chat up a chick is, like, not so easy. You have to get in her face (lean forward, Dude). But that’s okay. If she don’t dig you, you can lay back into the murk again, and get ready for your next charge. The “ambiance” will hide you, and God knows, the other clubbers won’t even register you, much less be filling out a grade sheet on your performance. Pick up your testosterone level and get back on your horse, you got work to do.
Old man, don’t be afraid to go to the club tonight and run into that skank who told you to take a hike last week. Not likely to happen, m’friend. You won’t have to deal with her giving you the hippie stare and ruining the fishing in the pond. You better be hip to the fact that these clubber babes are into the status thing. If one of them treats you like four-day-old cod, then the other babies are going to pick up on it, then you will be chopped liver, Squidly. Just the way it is, Dude — she is just keeping up appearances.
When you begin to practice your technique in the clubs, you will have some growing experiences as a “player”. After dealing with rejection after rejection, you acquire a practiced method which will stand you in good stead trying to pick up a woman at a park, college, or supermarket. An added pre-clubbing benefit is researching conversation techniques from relationship sites online.
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